I am also having this problem with a 2019 Ram with 5.7L with ~1700 miles purchased on 6/6/19 (April build date). I park my truck in a garage in FL, so very little environmental factors too consider other then ambient heat. And being in south Florida, my AC is always on.
When the truck has been sitting overnight and I remote start it, the idle will fluctuate greatly for the initial 20-40 seconds it's started. Which i thought was odd but did not seem to be an huge issue since it would clear up relatively shortly and never stalled.
But today I did not remote start the truck, i jumped in and started it and put it in gear, which then caused the truck to lunge forward unexpectedly even with my foot on the brake because the idle/RPM was increasing for no reason. I then drive for a bit and came to a stop sign at which point the truck was trying to lunge forward because of the varying RPM. It did clear up after 30 seconds or so.
For me this is a huge safety issue since i park in a garage with kids, etc around and i can't have my truck uncontrollably trying to lunge forward when i am in gear. I don't think i should have to make sure i remote start the truck for a minute before i used to make sure it's safe.
I've read through this forum and don' t see a TSB related to this and the 5.7L, am i missing it?
Below is a video of it after it had been doing it for a few seconds, initially it was worse fluctuation. I'll try to get some videos of it over the next few days and post them up when i do.