Sorry to be hijacking this thread, but I figured someone may find this info useful if they tackle this mod...
Had a small glimmer of hope this morning, only to be left disappointed. Plugged the phone in when I left for work and same deal. No wired connection, but wireless connected after a few attempts. Had to make a stop along the way, and left the phone plugged in when I left the truck. Couple minutes later, start the truck back up and CarPlay was on instantly, which usually doesn't happen. Audio sounded normal again (like my UC4), track forward was much more responsive (instant, instead of the 1-2 second delay with wireless CarPlay). I thought, holy crap, the wired finally worked!
Confirmed it when I got to the office - Unplugged the phone and CarPlay shut off with radio returning to home screen. Thought I was out of the woods. No such luck.
Plugged the phone back in and nothing. It would only connect wirelessly again after that. So close but yet so far.....
Next step may be to try a different module and see if I get better results.