Ok so I found some screws that work.
Home Depot had nada and I got these "chrome trim screws" that seem to fit as well as i'm going to get.
They go in half way then get kind of tight, but doesn't feel like it's cross threadings.
These screws looked like they would thread also, but it wasn't a flat head and I was concerned about the length sticking out since it's pushing what is essentially a plastic cap from the paddles down.
I do need a trim piece, the one for my Limited is not proper for the paddles, it has the gear limiter and if I remove it it's just a hole, and then i'm also missing a mounting section for the trim to the wheel.
It might be this, but no idea as the picture doesn't show the proper item
2019-2024 Ram Steering Wheel Bezel 6TE72RN8AA
store.mopar.com
The other side is part of the trim so unless it there a part I can screw into the removed gear limit I would need the entire trim piece for a TRX.