WXman
Ram Guru
Yeah I'm also at the limit of my hitch. The 2-5/16 ball I have is stamped 7,500 lbs.The 8.5 foot width of the trailer is what is causing the white knuckle driving, gets worst with high wind/cross wind. You are brave to make long trips, you should reduce your speed with all that weight.
I did tow my flatbed trailer @ around 7,000lbs with no issues, sure is nice to have a diesel, efficient and effortless!
Honestly I'd love to go up to a 2500 or 3500 truck and I've been shopping them but the money it takes to get the same truck I have now in a HD is insane. It's a $1,000 payment compared to my current $600 payment. So I think I'll just stay where I'm at. I don't anticipate adding any further weight in the future so I should be able to manage.