I get ya, man. I really do. I kinda been where you're at.
I had a Honda Goldwing F6B once. The entire world, literally, goes on and on about how reliable that bike is.
Not for me though. I blew that tranny out the 1st time at 14,000 miles. On this, a bike who dozens and dozens put over 500,000 miles on.
Musta been a fluke. Dealer repaired under warranty and I'm back on the road. Guess what happened at 31,000 miles? Yep. 2nd blown tranny.
Dealer repaired again... but now like you, I'm suspicious of it. To the point I couldn't enjoy it. I started to change my riding habits. I didn't ride as often. Etc. Etc.
I ended up trading that bike a few miles later at 45,000. I think it was fine but the suspicion made me question every little thing.
I'm now on a different bike and couldn't be happier.
What I took from that experience is nothing can be solved from the keyboard. And I had the luxury of speaking with a much deeper and longer-term community of Goldwing owners.
My dealer offered a solution and I took it. Nothing more can be done. If it's fixed, well hallelujah happy camper.
If not, I accept that the world isn't perfect. You are Army, man. Adapt and overcome.
Good insight, and I completely understand what you're saying. Typically, I am a very laid back individual who doesn't sweat the small stuff. During my long military career, I like many brothers/sisters in arms experienced and witnessed things that makes just about anything else in life not worth freaking out about in the big scheme of things. Also, please understand that I realize a keyboard can't solve things, but what it does allow is for me and other forum members to post our experiences/problems in the hope that collectively we can find a solution. Tragically, I have purchased many vehicles in my almost 50 years on this earth and rarely does a dealer have the answers I have looked for. With the power of the internet, we now have the ability to communicate in great forums like this. While doing so, we have the luxury of having members who are technicians, engineers, and auto specialist that more times than not can be more beneficial than a dealer.
Even if my tranny slamming into gear issue is fixed, I still have two bad clear coat paint runs, interior rattles, dash that needs replaced due to defect, undercarriage rattle, brakes that are squeaking worse than a dump truck, a miss-aligned hood, and gas mileage nowhere near what was advertised. I myself had to have my girlfriend reinsert the drains plugs in the rear of the cab after I took delivery so I wouldn't have the dreaded water leak like MANY have had. Can all of these things be fixed? Well, I would hope so, but tragically the fact that I even mentioned that number of quality defects out of the gate is very concerning, especially since my other '19 had most of these same issues. As tax paying citizens who works hard for our money, we owe it to ourselves to voice our disgrace so that FCA will hear us since power is in numbers. So, let's adapt to this situation and overcome it buy LOUDLY sounding out to
@RamCares in the hopes that both myself, and many others can get these issues addressed.