Here is what I heard back from FCA.
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I appreciate you taking the time to spell out your concerns with the Tow package removing the power folding mirrors/360 surround view--I read your email in its entirety and agree with your concerns. This is a well known issue that has not been addressed enough. At this point, there is a notice in VOIM (our order system) when the Tow package is added that then notifies the dealer/associate that the folding mirrors/360 surround view cameras are removed. However, when clicking quickly through options I agree that it can be missed. When the truck first came out for order, there wasn't a notice at all, which they only added after people were complaining so you are not alone in your frustration.
I agree that even with the changes, we need to educate the consumer/our dealerships more, and will be sure to mention it on my dealership visits around the greater (City) area. I'm also going to forward your email to our Ram Brand manager at HQ, in the hopes that the website can be a little more transparent. I'll also speak with Cara (who is the Ram manager) and make sure she sends it up the chain to the product guys. I apologize again for your experience and frustration, I completely understand that when you make a large investment such as this, you want it exactly as you imagined.
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