I saw a video somewhere of a pied that slips over the filled filter, and pierces it, allowing the used oil in the filter to drain out. Then, simply remove the old filter as always, just with no oil in it and less mess. I looked for it, googled it, and the only hits I got was to look for it as aircraft parts/tools. I forgot, and I'll look into it, but figured if anyone else knew, they would share. Just an idea.
Part of me worries about puncturing it, but it's going to be garbage anyway... Well maybe crack it loose first, so you know you can get it off, then puncture it. That way, if it was totally stuck, you wouldn't puncture it and could still drive it to a oil change shop to get it off. Nothing worse than puncturing it first and then Oh, Sh+t, I can't get it off now. lol