You have to constantly be driving in stop and go traffic. Also, if it's anything like my wife's Traverse, you have to get above 25mph before the start/stop will engage at next stop. Going on almost 5 years in her car with start/stop and still factory battery. The charging system monitor will prevent excessive discharge and restart the truck, even when sitting at a light, and not allow the engine to shut off if battery is low. I can sit in my truck for over 1/2 hour with key on/engine off and not have any issues with starting. A couple minutes at a stop light isn't going to hurt anything. You are over dramatizing a system you don't fully understand.