I have the falken wildpeaks on for my oem tire, there is zero road noise from them, even at 77 mph cruising. I just got the truck so I dont know how they handle snow yet, sounds like they should do well.
Another A/T to look at is the Toyo OpenCountry AT3. They are mountainpeak snow rated. I had the at2, which didn't have the peak rating yet, and they handled the Minnesota winters without any issue. I had 60000 on them when I traded the truck in and they still had enough tread to last till winter.