I believe you that it's not noticeable to YOU.
But many of us are ultra sensitive to the symphony of the engine/transmission/driveline.
I think, for me, living in Florida where it's predominantly flat may increase the amount of times MDS kicks in and out. Since it's flat, and I drive with a light foot, the MDS is on a LOT. But the minute I want to accelerate slightly I can feel the engine struggling to hold on to MDS. It doesn't want to give up 4 cylinder mode until the last second; and at that point when the engine finally relinquishes power to the other 4 cylinders, it causes a noticeable 'BUMP' in the driveline. Happens all the time.
I'm amazed at how incredibly butter-smooth this rig is when MDS is off. It's the smoothest engine/transmission combo I've ever driven.
Maybe people who live in hill-country aren't as affected by MDS because it's not being used nearly as much?