This isn't my write up. I don't remember who provided this, but these are the directions I used to create my third strap setup. I ultimately did mine slightly different, but this is a good base.
Below is a sketch of a bracket idea. The last pic provided is the bracket I talk about in the sketch, it's a reinforcement bracket that was for older 4th Gen RAM's but I used it because it gives the slot needed to hold that 3rd strap, it's not my picture just one I found. But mine did come all painted black.
Now when I did mine I did it slightly different then the sketch, mainly because I didn't have time to go round up 1/2" thick flat steel. So mine I used a 5/16" thick bar but then used a 1" angle iron placed on its face and welded it to work as a strong back. If you choose to do something like that make sure you don't make the strong back the full length as you only have a little over 1/2" of clearance between the top of the frame and body of the truck. But you will see that I ran that flat bar over the top of the frame to the outer edge of the frame and then bolted it to the angle iron on the inside.
I also welded all my brackets to the truck including the bracket from Mopar since I already had the welder out. However the nice thing with the bracket is it does come with threaded inserts so you don't have to drill through the entire frame for it, just the inside frame and place the inserts, all bolts are included as well for the bracket. I recommend placing the flat bar/angle iron first and then you will want to put the Mopar bracket as far up close to the angle iron as possible so that you won't end up with it being too low and the tank strap not cinching up tight.
Since I welded mine I don't have bolt sizes, but you get the idea from the sketch, but you will need to measure the frame width for bolt length, and depending on what thickness angle iron/flat bar you use will need to measure for those.
There isn't much weight on that third strap as the tank is pretty small up there but this will give that support needed. Also make sure to get a fairly long all-thread style bolt for the bolt that will be used to tighten the 3rd strap as you will need some length to tighten it up. I also got a small piece of rubber that I stuck to the bottom of the strap to ensure a tight fight.
Hope that helps and let me know if you have any questions. I don't have exact lengths so I recommend you buy longer of each and then just cut them down to size. I placed the new tank in place and took measurements and then dropped it and built the bracket.
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Thank you for all the links and info. What you are saying about the 4th gen T bracket is what I was thinking was my best method (if I do add it). I ordered the 4th gen bracket and the 33 gal 3rd strap for 5th gen. Install is tomorrow at the dodge dealer, thought about asking the tech if he could attach the 4th gen bracket in the correct spot with just bolting it on the frame while under there. Otherwise, I will see about my dad's friend welding it on. I'm guessing the correct placement won't line up with the existing bolt that is coming out of the underbelly? I assume this is why you have to add the bar above in order to attach it to something? The whole floating (only one end attached) of the bar to attach the 3rd strap seems like it wouldn't be very stable. Am I understanding that you used a bar that went from one side of the frame to the other? I assume this didn't get anywhere near the driveshaft. Happen to have any pics you can share of your install so I can see it a little better and the exact placement needed?
Thanks!