This is all you had to say right off the bat. This means that you have no basis for making the claim about touchless washes vs using any other type of chemicals used in hand wash products.
The bottom line is- ALL clear coat/paint degrades over time due to 100’s of factors, and ANYTHING that comes in contact with it, whether it be hand wash soaps/chemicals, car wash soaps/chemicals, foam, rain, high pressure water, hard water, soft water, etc etc, is going to degrade it. Yet, you somehow narrowed down the major violator to touchless washes. The reality is, nobody’s vehicle lives in a vacuum, and nobody’s wash/paint care method applies to all, and you certainly can’t make a blanket statement on touchless car washes when you have absolutely zero evidence or comparison to the exact same environment and circumstances of using hand wash chemicals.