My dealer and I also get along well, even though I purchased my truck in Toronto, 8 hours south of my home, my guess is that your dealer is hoping a fix will be available by the time your appointment is up. I find that it should not be a hard fix because the trucks built after July 2022 are not affected, you would think, simply put the new components in the affected vehicles.
On the pump repairs, did your dealer simply replace the same pump or did they install the new components of the July 2022 production trucks? I did ask my dealer about the recall and they said not one vehicle came in for pump failures, I realize we are a small town, 45,000 population and maybe another 20,000 with all the surrounding much smaller municipalities, so not that many diesels were sold compared to Toronto and surrounding areas with a population in the millions.