Saying the type of oil you use in a different manufacturers engine should be good for the Hemi isn't a very compelling argument. At least in my scenario, I was at least talking about other Chrysler engines.No, I dont believe I am saying that at all. For example, My wifes porsche Macan 2.0 uses the VW ea888 engine. It started life with a 5w40 (porsche a40) oil weight recommendation and is now recommended to use 0w20 (porsche c20). it is literally the exact same motor, internals everything the same. Its not that crazy to go from 5w20 to 5w40.
You have zero proof that using 5w-20 or 0w-20 is actually bad for the engine other than anecdotal opinion based on what you have used in other vehicles.