Your "complaint" there is regarding transmission tuning, ie, it doesn't downshift quick enough. That won't change between 3.21 and 3.92. The transmissions are tuned heavily in favour of MPG, so they're always going to want to sit in the highest gear they possibly can, while making just enough power to keep you there.
The difference in these gears is first/second, and eight. Everything else will be a wash, the 3.92 will be in a higher numerical gear than the 3.21, but have an equivalent gear ratio at the wheels; so both trucks will be pretty much same RPM/power at the same MPH once you're moving in the city/highway, until the 3.92 runs out of gears and the 3.21 can upshift one more time.