I haven't been changing my oil all that long... (almost 30 years...) and my 2019 truck is on oil change #6 currently. I have learned over the years to never let your local Meineke, Grease Monkey, Jiffy lube, brakes plus, walmart, or any other minimum wage daily rotating employees shop to do work on your car.... After dealing with their mistakes a couple of times, I only trust myself and allow the dealer to do it if it is cost and time effective (if their giving me the first 4 free oil changes). I change my own oil for between $24-36. Don't have to worry about the dealer scheduling, loaner car, or dropping my other car at the dealer the night before to have a vehicle.
I recommend the following.
1. Filter - Mobil 1, Mopar, Wix, Napa Gold, Bosch, or Purolator.
2. Oil - Pennzoil Ultra Platinum or Mobil 1 full synthetic. If you have a little extra change laying around feel free to go with Royal Purple, or Amsoil.
3. Gallon zip lock bag over the filter once you break it loose and pull it out inside the bag.
4. Recommend to get a quick drain valve for the oil. Fumoto, or what I prefer the Valvomax or the Femco. Super quick and easy and no tools needed and with the supplied spout you can drain into just about any size oil container.
Happy motoring, driving, towing, or off roading!