I did read your posts and forgot. Sorry. I suspect if "memory mirrors" is in your build sheet you were suppose to have them. I know you lose power folding, because they state that when building one. Can you still power adjust your mirrors? If so, "memory mirrors" should still be able to work on yours.I have the tow package.
@RamCares can get you a specialist. Though you may want to wait until my truck is looked over. It will most likely cause a TSB to be issued.