Led lights are a must have now, I love mine! I get both sides of the etorque arguments. I had a 19 and now a 21 ram, both had etorque. I had other issues as my 19 was lemon lawed! Had nothing to do with the etorque. I love it for driving around in town. I would guess I get 2 mpg better than a non etorque. It is nice if you ever do pull, gives the truck a little boost. Yes I would drive both as the etorque does have a different feel stoping and going. I got used to it very quick, as soon as you let your foot off the break it’s moving. Yes more to go wrong, but 8 years 80,000 warranty. I would get the led lights and etorque again. I also built my 21, added air ride and power steps, so far I love both of these options! The air ride has many uses, mine has 5 setting, I’ve been lowering it when taking heavy items into and out of the box, you’d be surprised what a few inches can do for you back! Good luck with whatever you decide!