No problem, That't what these forums are for.
On your first point at 2.5" the Mopar UCA's should be adequate.
on your second point you're pretty much right on except the ready lift SST attains its lift by 2 inch of pre load with 1.5" of top hat spacer. So setting the bilsteins at 2" and using 1.5" of top hat would be closer to the ready lift SST but with better shocks, and in that case you would for sure want the RL UCAs as the ball joint angle is designed around 3.5" of lift. Readylift advertises their top spacer as being 2" when it actuality it only nets about 1-1/2". When I measured everything thing out on my particular truck I figured I needed 2.25" of front lift to level the truck, I bought their 2" kit with UCA's and 1-1/2" of total lift is all I got there was still too much rake for my liking so I pulled their spacer and replaced it with a 2.5" street rays which netted a true 2.5" of lift which then caused the front end to sit too high so I added a 1" spacer to the rear and now I have about 1/2" of rake front to back. I'm considering going to the 5100 set them at 1.5" or close to it and using the original ready lift spacer. and trying to get front at 3" and 1" rear with about 1/4" of forward rake. Fine tuning is pretty tough because measurements change with even a full tank versus empty tank of fuel and even the slightest incline/decline of the ground the truck is sitting will yield different measurements. This pic was right after the Ready Lift " 2 inch ". Measurements showed only 1.5" of actual height gain.
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