Well, here's an interesting tidbit for those of you wondering why your milage is terrible compared to others. I'm now strongly of the opinion that it's the individual truck, not the driver. My truck is in the shop to resolve a wind noise issue (which they acknowledge is definitely obnoxious, but can't find what's causing it), so I currently have a 2018 loaner that is also 4x4 and crew cab. I'm easily averaging 3.5+ mpg better doing the exact same commute. I immediately noticed that I had to give way less on the pedal. I went from averaging barely 16 mpg to just under 20mpg, on 50/50 highway city.
My truck is supposedly the same engine and transmission, yet more aerodynamic and 400+lbs lighter, but somehow gets worse milage? There's definitely something wrong. I've asked the dealer to update the PCM/TCM, which hopefully that makes a difference. I would be way happier getting 20mpg over the crap I've been getting so far.
Food for thought.