Martin Saine out of Riverside, CA built the previous trans in one of my Dakotas. He is the one who told me 160-180, and that you don't want to run them cold. He is well know, or at least he was in the early 2000s, as one of the best in the pulling and racing truck community for Dodges. Specifically the 727 and 46/48RH/RE transmissions. And anyone that knows the 46/48REs knows they are well known to have issues with their ODs. And he didn't just rebuild transmissions, he has his own valve bodies with some proprietary tweaks, builds torque converters for the stall speed you want. Even created a "quick change" tail section for the 46re to remove the OD and replace it with a non-OD 727 tail section for less rotational weight and drive line loss when racing, then swap it back out to get OD back to drive on the street/highway with minimal fluid loss.
My current transmission was built by Eric Brewer, a local friend, who specializes in the Cummins and RAM transmissions. He used to work at local dealership, and was their best transmission guy, until he got tired of them threatening to fire him because he was doing a lot of side work from his bay, so started his own shop.
I don't know you from anyone else on this forum. I've met, talked to, and developed trust in the people I have let work on my trucks. I'd take their word over a random guy on internet claiming to be a builder. You very well could be, but I don't know you other than what you have posted here.