Definitely want to hear what you think of the V6.
Originally I wasn't even considering the V6 but the more I think about it the more more sense it's starting to make. My towing for the foreseeable future will consist of a pontoon boat and jet skis, neither of which should really cause even the V6 to break much of a sweat. Most of the time its just me, and maybe a couple passengers, my dogs, and a couple mountain bikes or skis and some gear in the bed.
My truck is my daily driver. If you think gas is the cheapest part of your vehicle you don't put many miles on your truck or you need to actually track your fuel costs for awhile. I've currently got a 2006 Nissan Titan with a 5.6L V8 (305hp and 379ft-lbs of torque) with a little over 245,000 miles on it. I average right around 15 mpg. I've more than doubled the initial cost of the truck with my fuel costs. I paid around $27,000 for the truck. I've spent $57,094 on fuel in the almost 13 years I've had it. If I can up the average to 22 mpg with a V6 I'd save $20,000 in fuel over the life of the truck if gas just stays at $3.50/gal though I'm assuming it'll climb so I'd save even more. I've definitely thought about getting a high-mpg beater to commute with but a lot of my miles are on the weekends going up to Tahoe when I'd need/want to have the truck and I simply like driving my truck otherwise I'd just buy a car in the first place. That savings is even better considering I'd still have the same horsepower with the V6 as I've got now (though quite a bit less torque). And by the time I'm done with it the resale difference between the 2 won't matter much at all.
Looking at performance numbers from my current truck (which I'm more than happy with) compared to a 4th gen Ram w/ the V6 the Ram is only a couple tenths slower though I'm a little concerned about Motor Trends numbers for their 2019 V6 test truck as they're quite a bit slower than the 4th gen numbers I've found which doesn't make much sense. I'd really like to test drive a V6 to see what passing performance is like as that's more important to me than 0-60 times.
Even more, I'm considering a Limited with RamBoxes and looking at the payload stickers people have been posting I don't even see how anyone with that truck can even utilize the higher tow rating of the Hemi unless they've got nothing in the truck but the driver and even then I'd probably need to go on a diet to not be overloaded and hit the GCWR. As it is me and 3 friends could come really close to overloading the payload with just a little extra gear in some of the trucks in the payload sticker thread. Eh, What can I say, I was an offensive lineman in college, I've got big friends. I do wonder why the GVWR of the V6 is lower than the V8 for the 4x4s, that extra 200 lbs of payload would've be nice.
Yes, I can afford it either way so I'm not going to be complaining otherwise I wouldn't be considering a truck and I know I'll probably miss the V8 sound and that I'd be giving up some performance (who doesn't like to open the throttle sometimes and hear that nice growl while launching down an on-ramp) but the more I think about it I'm just not sure the V8 is worth the extra cost if the V6 can most likely handle everything I need, gives decent performance, and saves me a significant chunk of change over the life of the truck especially considering fuel isn't ever going back down to $1/gal and will more likely be $5 or $6/gal by the time I replace my next truck.