Since this has been going on for months now in between multiple dealer visits, I have tried every which way but and loose! So did Ram tech with me at the station.
I've asked in a few places online about this issue trying to find the fix as I really like this truck have only driven Rams going back to the 1990's etc. The tech and the Star Team too worked on it for months. As mentioned, 40 plus business days at the dealer for it over various times and attempted resolves. Some have told me they have had fuel necks replaced as the fix, others have had entire gas tanks replaced and it fixed it. Others have had up to three gas tanks replaced and then they just traded it in etc.
I have no issue with my service advisor or dealer techs, they are good people. They can only do so much with what they are given in terms of latest parts etc from the factory.
Newer California pump set ups seem to be the biggest enemy. Some have said, "Just find another station that doesn't stick and only go to that one." As I travel California to Oregon often with pets, family etc, that doesn't work. And, again, knowing California, when they make it mandatory stations all have this newer pump and if/when the truck is out of warranty at that point, ultra screwed.
Each time the latest redesign of the fuel neck has been installed, gassing up the first few times has a little to no glitch. Then, time 4 on or so, forget it. Battle is on.
Up, down, side to side, smooth, hard, soft, fast slow...even a few "Come on Babies" thrown in and still a good half hour each time while the pump is knotted in the hole. Yes Yes, I've heard or made just about every joke over the situation at this point.
I'm hoping if it's in connection with something beyond just the neck making it happen that a 2021 build won't have the possible issue. Though, I'm having major hesitation on ordering a 2021 as a result.
Thanks for your input and comments. And again, putting this here for reference in case others have the issue now or in the future.