Nope, all I can go from is what you've posted. You might be the best engineer on the planet for all I know, but you haven't shown that so far.
And don't be so soft. It was an observation, not an insult.
You think I dont know how a modern transmission works.... Both a modern and older ones still uses clutches and gears. Modern trans use computer controlled solenoids instead of valve bodies, to more accurately control shifts. The computer analyzes throttle position, rpms, vehicle speed, current gear and the next gear (up or down), shift pressure and duration on each shift and makes adjustments as needed, to optimize the shift smoothness while minimizing clutch slippage.
The engine and transmission are the same, regardless of whether it is equipped with a 3.92 or a 3.21 rear ratio. A 3.92 equipped truck will require 3.92 revolutions of the driveshaft to accomplish one revolution of the rear tires. A 3.21 requires 3.21 driveshaft revolutions to achieve that same one tire revolution. So to cover the same piece of ground, the engine and transmission perform more work (more rpms=more work) in the form of rpms to cover the same ground. Except at idle, the 3.92 equipped truck will turn more rpms at each throttle position, in each gear and speed than its 3.21 counterpart. The 3.92 may "feel" as though it isnt working harder because of the higher rpms but in reality it is, because of the increased work to move the 3.92 truck at the same speed as the 3.21 truck. More work=more wear. Granted, not a lot more work/wearbut it is more.
It is true that while towing heavy up a grade, the 3.21 equipped truck may make a shift or 2 that the 3.92 truck doesnt and add some wear to the clutch packs, the average half ton doesnt not spend the majority of its life towing even a light load, so over the course of its life, the avearge half ton will experience its most wear and tear empty.
And with that, I am out of this discussion. You all can continue your chest thumping without my input.