I have the ‘19 Longhorn off road package. I didn’t need the off road package and was led to believe the ride is the same.
I find that I feel the smaller bumps more now then in my prior Ram, which was just a 4x4.
The tires on this are 275 55 r20. AT, or All Terrian. Knowing I never go off road, would switching out the tires make a difference in how she rides. If so, what tire would be the best.
This will sound silly, but have you checked to see what the current tires are inflated to? A change of even 5 psi can lead to a very different ride.
I have the 4x4 non-offroad package and I find the ride to be notably more comfortable than my 2011 sport was. For appearance and wheel protection, I'm inclined to go to a 275/60 when I replace the tires, which may also soften the ride a tiny bit.
It is going to be tough to get a reaslitic opinion on the ride of the tires themselves - especially on a brand new truck. In fact, it might be impossible, since you'd be looking for someone with a 4x4 offroad package (also has different shocks?) who has decided to put a more street tire on. The most realistic thing for you to do is find someone (maybe a local dealer has swapped out for something agressive for an upgraded package truck?) who would let you borrow their take-off wheels and tires and swap them on to see if you notice a difference, and would be a minimum of hassle.
The problem here is that it isn't just the tires but also the shocks and likely springs which are different.
I'd let a little air out of those tires first and see if your opinion changes.