took it to a different dealer, seems the first shop that had it didnt know what they were doing (if you can believe that lol ) they cut the locating pins off the bumper mounting bracket, and spaced the bumper out on the passenger side with 3 lock washers. new place says its not the bumper thats wrong its the grille and facia panels that are out of adjustment. showed me where it was miss adjusted. going to order a new bumper mounting plate, strip the front end and reassemble it the way its supposed to be. AND NO I WON'T GET USED TO IT!!!