As an engineer, tech's who think they know more than both the engineer and the owners of the product usually end up making recommendations that cost the engineers, owners and the company both time and money...
Where is the data to show that a 10w-whatever oil provides more protection than the specified oil weight used properly? Guess what? There isn't any. Say what you want about generic temperature charts, you're not getting anywhere near the full picture. What's being suggested is absurd. How can a heavier oil that supposedly protects more also not provide all of the other benefits of lower fuel economy, more power, or whatever else people want to say? The whole point is lubrication. Lubrication reduces friction, which reduces heat, which in turn reduces friction, etc, etc. I highly doubt any Ram will see prolonged ambient operating temperatures outside of the specified oil weights designated operating range. And regardless of oil type, vehicle USE is more of a concern than operating temps, as fuel and carbon deposits that gets into the oil from hard use is what determines the abbreviated "Severe Duty" oil change schedule anyway. Contamination is the reason for oil change intervals.
Your oil isn't meant to last the lifetime of the engine, however, your engine is meant to last a lifetime if used with proper oil and oil change intervals.