I hear ya, and agree..the front seems way off!
Given your suspension setup, I'd expect you should be at about 40"+ front just from the Carli's.
Then add the 285/65R20, which should be about 34.5" tall, and I'd think you'd be another 1.3" higher at about 40.8" front and 41.3" rear.
My Laramie was 36.875" F and 38.625" rear stock..your Laramie ORP should have 1" from the ORPs and 0.5" from 33s..so you should have been about 38.375" F and 40.125" rear stock (using mine as a base..but these trucks vary a lot).
Carli Commuters supposedly are ~2.25-2.5" front lift on a non-ORP like mine..and ~1.25-1.5" on an ORP like yours.
My coffee isn't fully on board yet this morning, but adding this way, your L-ORP should be ~40.625" F and ~41.25" R.
Either your Laramie wasn't an ORP, or doesn't actually have the Carli & HDs installed or doesn't have 285/65s installed or the Front Carli's are way off adjustment or ???...I just can't figure it out...I can understand your frustration or disappointment, something's up!!