I went with the manual's break-in rec. We drove a long, leisurely route home, keeping speed under 65 and varying it every 15 min from 50 to 65 mph. Then we took a leisurely weekend drive to get the remaining 150 miles done. We then did a couple hundred miles towing the trailer at a lower speed and varying it on route. I didn't end up on cruise control @ 75 mph until I had almost 700 miles on the odometer. I did have an oil change done at 4 months/6k miles. I'm a believer that modern manufacturing doesn't leave shards & fragments in the engine like the old days (my father was 45 yr @ Warner Gear transmission plant, so I was brought up with all the tales of why you change that initial oil) but after 6k miles I figure the seals have settled in & the engine parts are well 'seasoned' so I go for the fresh oil.
I've had oil changed every 6k since, no matter what the oil minder says...and every time I ask them to check the diff fluid. So far, at 20k miles, there's no sign of diff fluid breaking down.