Candidly, the graphic sums up only that you won't stop beating that poor animal until everyone agrees with you. If you were truly confident in your views, you'd put them out there for consideration and then let folks decide themselves. I've done enough racing, wrenching, and towing that I for one don't need the repeated brow-beating. The family business is also contracting / construction, so we have run enough pickups (from all of Chevy, Ram, and Ford) regularly towing heavy loads, pushing snow, etc. up to 300-350k miles with no internal engine issues. Now my dad is also fastidious about maintenance - oil is changed on all the equipment regularly with what the manufacturer specifies, but there are no fancy boutique oils and no over-thinking going up or down in viscosity. But do you know what typically kills our trucks? Not engine failures, but everything else - transmissions start to slip, frames rust when they are doing salting and plowing, the trucks just wear out generally after about 15 years or so. Engine lubrication is not the issue. My dad's last Ram 1500, that he just retired, went to 325k miles using this approach. You know what killed it? Door rust and the transmission started to slip. We should call Ram and demand a refund . . . .
The other thing that is really interesting here is the psychology. A lot of these trucks cost at least $50k, many hit the $80k mark. For most people, that is the most expensive purchase you will make after a home. So, if one is rational, one would only buy something that expensive in relative terms from people or a company where you have some degree of confidence in their knowledge, in terms of their ability to deliver a well built vehicle. But yet, you buy the truck from them and you really think they are going to spec an oil that is going to result in engine damage? (And don't tell me they don't care at all what happens out of warranty -- I know from professional experience that automobile companies spend millions learning about what motivates customer loyalty, and destroys it, as customer retention is a major goal of all car companies.) If they are that incompetent or dishonest that they cannot correctly spec the viscosity of the motor oil to be used, why would you buy the truck from them? What about the rest of the car? They had competence and integrity with the rest of it, just not with the motor? With all respect, nothing you are saying holds up to any sort of rational or fact-based analysis, other than the fact that a bunch of folks with too much time on their hands to think about motor oil talk about this stuff incessantly on websites like Bob is the oil guy or whatever the name of it is. (I remember reading that blog years ago and there was some genius over there who was running 0w16 oil in a Ferrari. He was a doctor, a cosmetic surgeon if I am not mistaken, so not a dope but not qualified on the subject. He ignored Ferrari's recommendation and got quite a fan base over there. Me? I'll go with the advice on oil viscosity from the guys who also build the F1 cars.)
Now if you are out of warranty, or the call is otherwise on your nickel, and you want to increase to a -30 viscosity, then go ahead and do so. That is your call and as I think I said earlier in the thread, I would be very surprised if it caused any issues. But if you think it is going to materially extend the life of the truck, all else being equal in terms of keeping the truck maintained generally, you are attaching far too much emphasis and over-thinking what is a relatively minor factor in vehicle longevity.