I haven't back tracked at all. You're simply not understanding the argument

You're comparing 5th vs 5th whereas you need to look carefully at the actual calculated
gear ratios for both axels; then you'll see that the same gear ratios appear with both axels, except offset by one gear. I didn't say anything about "skipping gears".
For example, the gear ratio "3.21" appears in 6th for the 3.21 axel (makes sense, 6 is "direct drive"), and appears as "3.2144" in the 3.92 as 7th gear; therefore 6th gear in 3.21 = 7th gear in 3.92. Very similar gear ratios appear throughout both axels for the majority of highway gears.
I simply don't have the time or patience to wade through this all again and again and again. All the posts on this are in the "engineers guide" so I suggest you search inside there.