If it's not meant to be, don't force it. Despite what the dealer may tell you (new truck, hard to get, "RARE", etc), they make hundreds of thousands of these things a year. There's plenty of them out there optioned the way you like. And if there isn't, like mentioned, you can build one. When I was shopping I used the
https://www.ramtrucks.com/new-inventory.ram_1500_dt.2019.html?modelYearCode=IUT201920&radius=100 inventory search on the ramtrucks.com webstite to find trucks that were optioned how I wanted within a reasonable distance. I called each and every dealer and asked if they were in stock and asked to have them physically verified (not just showing as in stock online). The one's that actually were on site, I told my dealer to call and get when they said "there aren't any trucks within 250 miles of us that we can get for you".