You can turn it off with a tune and lots of devices give them memory.
This is the best bet, it's a simple cable that just makes it remebr the setting.
Ram always reverts it back to on, even if you turn it off because Ram thinks it knows better then you do.
I got mine for $50.
This Autostop Eliminator is for RAM 1500 model years 2019, 2020, 2021, 2022, 2023, & 2024. Autostop Eliminator will disable ESS system on your RAM 1500. Disable auto stop
www.autostopeliminator.com
I opted for this vs the tune so when I am waiting at gas stations for a pump I will let it auctally turn it off. The tune completely disables it and you can't just toggle it back on without reflashing parameters.
It's funny when you put your truck in park the engine turns on. So you if you stop behind a car at a pump, the truck turns off, if you put it into park because there is no brake hold the engine then turns back on, and if you want you can turn off the truck with the button. Very janky.