My wife and I reviewed the Ramsey stuff a few years back and while we didn’t follow it exactly it was really helpful for us to just get on the same page and have common financial goal. She had tons of student loan debt. Over the past 3 years we have aggressively focused on it and happy to say we should be done end of this year. And when I say crazy amounts, I think our focused payments over 3 years is close to $125k, and we are in our mid 40s. I have no idea what the real student loan amounts were with interest , I don’t ever want to know. It be like knowing what your house actually cost at the end of the loan term!
It’s been wonderful to have no car payments & only a small mortgage with the student loan payment over the past few years.
But it’s a real struggle to balance living life now and also planning to live it later.
I wanted to be more on the plan so to speak. But we sort of worked it out that as long as we budget for other things (trips, house stuff, ECT.) and don’t go back into debt for that stuff, that’s works for us. I had a friend not much older than me pass away 2 years ago from cancer. That was a bit of an eye opener. You can’t take it with you and some of the trips / vacations that you say you’ll do when you retire (in 20yrs. . for us) ; all you can do is hope you’ll be healthy enough and able to do so at that time.
So we have a 2014 Subaru with 115k miles and had her 2009 Subaru with 195k miles, it started to have AC issues that I knew would be more expensive than we wanted to spend on it. We were happy to help a friend out who needed transportation and could do the work himself. I also have a 2010 Miata MX5 that is a toy street / track car.
I ordered a new truck earlier this week. It’s the most expensive thing I’ve purchased other than our home. It’s almost 30% of what our home cost! I’m a bit nervous thinking about the costs but reality is I’ve been budgeting for a $700/m payment now for a bit and we can afford it. I’m fully funding my retirement account while she does what she needs for a match, and we have 3 months emergency fund in bank and will continue to grow that to 6 months.
I get what DR says and do believe it is a proper and quick way to get on a plan of no debt. He is talking to a huge audience with different levels of understanding too, so he sort of has to stick to that script. But use that info and decide how long of a journey you want to be on, and apply what works best for you.
I don’t judge folks who are over extending themselves. It’s just a choice and for many they don’t even worry about it which is some way I’m a bit envious (like the person who just drives their car and never hears a noise, because they don’t even know what to listen for, not a care in the world).
I’ve always worried, so getting on a budget and planning for things has really helped my quality of life. We will focus on paying the truck off as quick as we can and enjoy it at the same time. We try to purchase things well too, so if a life situation were to happen, we could easily sell my Miata, the Forester, or the truck if needed.