The first car I ever owned, I wanted it to last forever. I did all the maintenance on it early. Changed oil every 3k miles or less, changed sparked plugs before it was recommended, etc., etc.. What did it do? Left me stranded 3 times on the side of the road. A friend of mine had an import car. Never did any maintenance. I kept waiting for that car to blow up so I could tell him I told you so. It never did. Never left him stranded, never stopped running. I learned then, that the most important factor about a vehicle lasting, is that it needs to be built well from the start. I never changed diff fluid in any car or truck, and I never changed trans fluid ever either. I'll change spark plugs when it starts running funny. I change engine oil, occasionally the air filter, and maintain the brakes. And it better run. Otherwise it will get a kick to the curb. And I have had great luck with my cars and trucks over the years. All driven to high mileage, with almost no issues. I did have to do an AC repair to the RAM once. As a testament to RAM, both my trucks have been great and trouble free except for the one AC issue mentioned. Between the 2 trucks, that was over 300k miles of driving combined. And who ever got my first RAM after I traded it in, imo got a great truck. And I never got around to changing the spark plugs in that one. Second owner can change plugs and the diff fluid if he wants. Truth is, I probably did less damage to my diff by not changing the fluid, than the OP did by having his fluid changed.