Similar issue here – 2025 RAM 1500 with a 1999 Wells Cargo trailer – all lights are incandescent lights. Turn signals and brake lights are working perfectly, but no running lights (about 20 bulbs on running lights). I disconnected all but tail and tag light and works just fine now.
The behavior of the truck was as follows: connecting the trailer would start light tests followed by an error with the message “check trailer connection”. I used the trailer on a BMW X7 without any issue. I switched the cars and connected the trailer to X7 – sure enough worked. Connected back to RAM and got same error. Checked the interior fuses (days before I installed a dash cam and I was afraid I messed up something) and fuses were all OK. Since I had no another trailer to test the truck, I continued to research and troubleshoot.
I started to check the receiver on the truck and all was wired correctly. Started the truck and engine and I measured the voltage on the pin dedicated to running lights and I had 13+Volts. Connected the trailer and failed with same error, disconnected the trailer while the engine was still running and measured the voltage on the same pin as before – had only residual power, about 1V or so. Stopped the engine and started it and the voltage on the pin was back to 13+V. Connected the trailer and the power was lost.
Considering the pattern I discovered, I initially suspected a short, but the BMW was fine and I drove the trailer over very long distances without any issues, so I ruled that out and all left to suspect was an incompatibility. I kept researching online and run into this post which opened my eyes – I disconnected all wires corresponding to running lights in the trailer hub then identified the tail and tag lights. Connected only these and sure enough the trailer lights are working flawless now.
Conclusion is that the trailer limits the current draw via software which I do understand. What I do not understand why they designed this mechanism considering only LED lights? My trailer is 25+ years older, but I am sure it will outlast the truck due to its build quality. The designers need to consider backwards compatibility and not think that everyone that buys their truck has a newish trailer.