Check the Order Tracking thread for people’s accounts of their builds. The short answers are:
1. There’s no great, easy way to see where your build is at.
2. You can use Ram Chat (go to the Ram website, click Contact Us, then Contact Us again, then click the picture of a person with a question mark in a bubble, then finally click Chat) and give them your VIN number. They won’t be able to give you detailed info or dates, generally speaking, but you might glean some information.
3. Your dealer can also help. It looks like sometimes, the dealer has more up-to-date info than Ram Chat.