Frequent filter and fluid changes are key to longevity. YMMV.
(FWIW, I changed my ecodiesel oil/filter after 3,000 miles. Then again at 10,000. And I did the fuel filter at 10,000. (I also did the front/rear diffs at 3,000 miles.) I'll do the transmission at 40,000.)
(ETA: Ram states that our ZF 8HP transmissions have "lifetime" fluid. I'm pretty sure I have a 100,000 drivetrain warranty. (Gotta check that...) Anyway, ZF says keeping the original fluid in operation for 100,000 miles produces "an acceptable rate of failure". I plan on keeping this well beyond that. My acceptable rate of failure is...zero. If I kept to the interval the Ram lawyers said (100,000 miles), would my transmission last as long as if I change fluid and filter at 40k? Of course not. (BTW, the filter is built in to the pan, and you only get about 1/2 the fluid with a drain.) I've run multiple vehicles well past 250,000 miles. (Heck, every single one I've owned, minus the wrecks.

) I want this Ram to go 300,000+.)