This comes up every so often, the 3.55 is only with the v6.
But even if it was available I'd say it's a poor choice for the Hemi + 8 speed. It would neither give you that much better towing nor that much better mpg, kind of pointless. Just pick the 3.21 or 3.92 based on your priority; the one maximizes mpg while still giving you everything you need to pull within realisitic payloads, and the other maximizes towing while at the expense of some highway MPG. I see no point in going half way in between and gaining neither one or the other.