I've been running into the same issue myself from my last 3 oil changes. 2020 Ram Rebel with 50,000 miles. First time it was going in for unrelated warranty work. Prior to my visit, I performed my own oil change. I've been doing my own oil changes for decades. I'm a production mechanic, so I have solid grip strength. I've always fully tightened them down by hand and I always ensure the original gasket comes off with the old filter. I wipe down the mating surface on the engine face as well. I lightly oil the new filter gasket before installing it.
During my last dealership visit for unrelated warranty work, the dealer said I had an oil leak and probably had a defective gasket on my oil filter, so they went ahead and did a full oil change on it with a new filter. That seemed to be ok for the life of that filter. Fast forward to today, for the last month or so I started smelling burning oil coming from my engine bay. Most present when walking around to the front of the vehicle after driving it and shutting it off, as well as an odor of it in the cab while driving, but stopped at a stop light, etc.
I was due for an oil change this past weekend, so I was looking around for potential oil leaks that would be causing this smell. Nothing obvious from up top, but when I crawled under it to drain the oil from the pan and get the filter off, I could see the filter had been leaking again. When I went to remove it, it was very easy to unthread. Basically it got loose again and was spraying oil all over everything around it, including the exhaust manifold, which what was causing the burning oil smell.
So needless to say, when I installed the new filter and tightened it as tight as I possibly could this time by hand. I did not use a tool (yet). I will definitely be looking at in again after a couple weeks of driving to see if it can be re-tightened any further by hand.
Definitely weighs on my mind a bit and I don't completely trust it now.
Worth noting, whenever I buy a new vehicle, I always get on eBay and buy a whole case of OEM oil filters right off the bat and this was no exception.
I'm stumped on this one for potential causes. I guess maybe try another brand of filter, maybe a K&N with the nut welded on the bottom of it and tighten it a tad more than usual.